tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2750477160754397886.post3624323805683177879..comments2010-05-07T22:44:17.096-07:00Comments on Expanding our Family: Saying yes to foster.Amyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03243246528201973827noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2750477160754397886.post-38699581113650735442009-10-20T22:08:26.504-07:002009-10-20T22:08:26.504-07:00Britax Marathon is the seat we got knowing that we...Britax Marathon is the seat we got knowing that we weren't going to have to need an infant carrier. We knew we wouldn't need to change it until we got a booster seat when he gets older. Also - we got the Peg-Perego Aria stroller because it is very light weight and, again, we knew we didn't need the convertible car seat/stroller. It folds and unfolds pretty quickly and it fits in small areas. Of course, a stroller is always gonna be a nuisance but this one we STILL use and it has been quite handy. Small and light weight were key for us. AND my plan was to wear Oscar anywhere and every where knowing that it is the best way to bond with a child. As adoptive parents we are already at a disadvantage and wearing your child is the best. I have the Ergo Carrier AND I have a Maya Wrap. I got them both online and they are very much worth the money. I have two of the Ergos and if you want one - I will send one up :) When it comes to holding your child - remember you can never hold too much. Word to the wise... go with what you feel in your heart. Some people (family and friends included) will look at you or comment or give you "advice" not to hold your child so much... DON'T LISTEN. <br /><br />AND, I think that if you feel that it is not the time to open your home to a foster situation rather than the FtA than don't do it. We all want to "save" children but when it comes right down to it, it's ok to be "selfish." Ernie and I had those same conversations and thoughts. They are natural and valid feelings. <br /><br />The number one thing is that you will definitely know when your child comes up for placement. Trust and have faith :) <br /><br />Good Luck and I will keep you both in my prayers.<br />Love, LuanaLuanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15533159020261173506noreply@blogger.com